The comedy is in the outrage and poor Benjamin just doesn't get it. Proud to be a Waitress draws on the 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' phenomenon. While this couple probably do have a future together some aspects of their relationship are yet to undergo serious negotiation. They care for one another and value each other's qualities. Well, almost. Benjamin values Laura but rates his colleagues opinions even higher. Placing importance on the status of position is probably something he has grown up with. Laura holds a more liberal view to status and position in society and takes his suggestion as a deep insult. The actors playing Laura and Benjamin have a rich context to develop these different points of view. This scene allows the female actor to express assertiveness and strength. Laura has her feet on the ground. Benjamin appreciates her intelligence and strength but doesn't bargain on the reaction he receives. He just doesn't see it coming. The actor playing Laura has an opportunity to personally invest in this touchstone. There is obviously a great deal of sensitivity around the subject. She is hurt and reacts with anger at the assumption that her position at work lowers her credibility and status. Perhaps this isn't the first time this subject has been raised by someone she cares about. Perhaps she has felt the pressure of 'other people's opinions' in the past and emphatically wants to be left to walk her own path. Benjamin is probably correct in suggesting that she has far greater potential to be more than a waitress. It's just that diplomacy isn't one of his strong suits. Perhaps if they stay together he'll learn some. This scene typifies the theme of two world colliding. Male and female expectations can be and often are very different. Societal values and the importance of position and status are also areas that can divide opinion. At this point resolution is not an option. When the hurt and anger subside there may be room for discussion. For now we'll just have to imagine the possibility. |